“When life feels overwhelming or hard to move through, and you feel stuck, you don’t have to navigate it alone.”

I’m Rachel, a fully qualified, accredited counsellor and EMDR therapist. I offer a calm, supportive space where you can begin to make sense of what you’re experiencing, at your own pace, and in a way that feels safe for you.


This means:

  • you are listened to with care and respect.
  • there is no pressure to be any particular way.
  • we work at a pace that feels manageable for you.

My work is grounded in a person-centred approach, meaning you are met with care, respect, and without judgement. Together, we can explore what’s going on for you through counselling, and where appropriate, I may integrate EMDR therapy to support the processing of more deeply held or distressing experiences. When appropriate, I offer EMDR therapy for people experiencing trauma, complex trauma, complex PTSD, chronic illness, chronic pain, anxiety, low self‑esteem, relational difficulties, and emotional overwhelm.

My Approach to EMDR Therapy

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is a gentle, structured therapy that helps the brain process distressing or overwhelming experiences that may feel “stuck.”

Sometimes, talking can help us make sense of what we’re going through. At other times, we may notice that certain memories, feelings, or responses continue to resurface, even when we understand them. EMDR can support the processing of these experiences so they begin to feel less intense and more manageable.

My approach to EMDR is calm, relational and paced around you. Before any trauma processing begins, we take time to build safety, stability and a strong therapeutic foundation. This is an essential part of the work and helps ensure that EMDR is used safely and effectively.

We may not begin EMDR straight away. Some clients work with me through counselling first, and together we decide if and when EMDR feels appropriate. You will never be pushed into any part of the process before you feel ready.

EMDR is most effective when approached gradually and with adequate preparation, so it may not be suitable for those seeking a rapid or immediate intervention. I integrate EMDR within a supportive therapeutic relationship, so that the work feels containing, respectful, and guided at your pace.

My Background

As well as being a qualified psychotherapeutic person-centred counsellor, I bring over two decades of experience in mentorship and coaching, which allows me to provide compassionate guidance and support tailored to your unique needs. My training in EMDR therapy enables me to support deeper processing of trauma, anxiety and emotional distress.

Alongside my work with private clients, I work with a large NHS mental health trust, victim support and local council services. As an accredited registered member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) my practice adheres to and aligns with their rigorous ethical and professional frameworks. Additionally, I am accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.

“Sessions with Rachel helped me by providing support and explanations helping me to understand what was happening. It was a place where I could say how I felt without any repercussions. It changed my perception of myself which up until then had been based on negative feedback from people in my life. I now experience feelings of freedom and self-worth.” – Client Testimonial

Qualifications and Professional Memberships

  • EMDR Therapy Practitioner – EMDR Academy, accredited by EMDR UK & Europe (all 4 parts)
  • BA (Hons) Humanistic Counselling – University of Chichester
  • Certificate in Counselling Skills – University of Chichester
  • Certificate in Understanding Children and Young People’s Mental Health – University of Lincoln
  • Safeguarding Children Level 2 – University of Lincoln
  • Certificate in Online Counselling – Open University
  • Professional Accreditation in Counselling and Psychotherapy – The National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS)
  • Professional Accredited Member of The National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS)
  • Member of The EMDR Association UK (EMDRA)
  • Member of The EMDR International Association (EMDRIA)
  • Member of The Person Centred Association (TPCA)

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NCPS Membership number: NCS24-00809. ICO Registration Reference ZB589802.

 

EMDR Therapy

What EMDR Therapy Can Help With

  • Anxiety that feels persistent or overwhelming.
  • Past distressing and traumatic experiences that still feel present.
  • The lasting impact of growing up in complex or emotionally difficult environments.
  • Low self-esteem or a strong inner critic.
  • Difficult memories that are hard to move on from.
  • Emotional responses that don’t seem to make sense.
  • The emotional impact of ADHD, including overwhelm, anxiety, difficulty with focus and regulation.

You don’t need to have experienced a single major trauma for EMDR therapy to be helpful.

What to Expect

We begin by getting to know you and understanding what has brought to therapy. Together, we will build a foundation of safety and develop ways to help you feel more grounded before moving into any deeper work. EMDR therapy is always collaborative. You remain in control throughout.

What is EMDR Therapy?

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is a gentle, structured therapy that helps the brain process distressing and traumatic experiences that may feel “stuck.”

Sometimes, even when we understand what’s happened, the emotional impact remains. You might notice certain memories still feel intense and distressing or that your body reacts in ways that are hard to explain.

EMDR works by supporting the brain’s natural ability to process these experiences, so they begin to feel less overwhelming.

I work with you in a paced and contained way, helping feelings settle so they no longer carry the same trauma, distress emotional weight.

Online EMDR Therapy

Online therapy popular for people who find it safer and more convenient. This means you can continue to get the support you need at a time that fits around your schedule whilst in the comfort of your own home. Online therapy is just as effective as in-person therapy.

Research shows that EMDR is as effective online as it is in-person, offering a safe and supportive way to process difficult experiences.

Why Online Therapy Could Be a Good Option:

  • It could be more practically feasible for you, as you don’t have to travel long distances to see a therapist and it can fit around you and your time. This may especially suit people living in remote areas.
  • You can access online therapy from the comfort of your home.
  • It may feel less daunting to ‘meet’ someone online rather than face to face and it can sometimes feel easier to talk about difficult issues this way due to the sense of security it can provide.
  • Online counselling can work well as a steppingstone for someone wanting to transition to face to face counselling, such as those with social anxiety.

Rachel helped and supported me through a period of crisis, from seeking emergency intensive support through to helping me process and move forwards once out of the crisis period. Without Rachel’s support during that time, I’m not sure what position I would be in now and will be forever grateful for her support. 

Since working with Rachel, I have felt an uplift in my mood with a more positive outlook on life and feel more able to process and manage difficult situations. Rachel has helped me to set boundaries to protect my own mental health which I feel has helped me massively in maintaining a positive mindset. I now feel more comfortable to talk about how I’m feeling and recognising what my needs are, something I previously struggled with. 

Rachel had an amazing ability to help me find peace within myself by letting me talk and find my own way forward whilst accepting that I had become overwhelmed. She created calm in a very safe, welcoming environment and gave me the chance to talk, cry, reminisce and find my smile again. Rachel left a footprint on my life by giving me support, encouragement, and the strength to find myself again.

I feel very comfortable talking with Rachel and although not currently having ongoing sessions I would feel more than comfortable to book an appointment with Rachel if needed and without hesitation. 

Seeking counselling was a big step for me and one that I was nervous about starting, when I met Rachel, she instantly made me feel at ease and comfortable in talking to her which I feel contributed heavily to the progress I made in improving my mental well-being. 

Sessions with Rachel helped me to work through deep rotted troubles from previous family experiences and past relationships. Rachel helped me to explore these feelings and process them in a way which I felt comfortable with.

I would 100% recommend Rachel’s services to anyone who felt that they needed support. Rachel creates a calming and safe environment and is without a doubt one of the most friendly and caring people I have met.

Sessions with Rachel helped me by providing support and explanations helping me to understand what was happening. It was a place where I could say how I felt without any repercussions. It changed my perception of myself which up until then had been based on negative feedback from people in my life. I now experience feelings of freedom and self-worth.

I was so happy when I found Rachel. She is someone I could really talk with and connect with and someone who was so understanding of my situation. She was willing to help me get through one of the most difficult parts of my life which has led me to feeling so much better.

Rachel’s caring personality comes over in her practice as she works with you to explore your problems whilst not putting pressure on you but guiding you through the experience.

Rachel’s office is a warm and comfortable place where I felt safe to explore my emotions with her guidance. Rachel has a great ability to guide me to explore my feelings while not making me feel pressured.

I had complete trust in Rachel and felt a bond with her. We were on a journey together and she genuinely celebrated each milestone with me. She conducts herself in a professional but compassionate manner and is very well informed. I can highly recommend her.

I have worked relentlessly with Rachel to challenge my limiting self-beliefs and insecurities. Thanks to working with Rachel, I’m now entering a new chapter of my life, one that I had always doubted was possible. Thank you so much Rachel for everything you’ve helped me achieve.

Booking an Appointment

If you’re wondering whether counselling or EMDR therapy might be right for you, I offer a free 20-minute initial telephone consultation.

This is a calm and confidential space where you can talk about what has been going on for you, what has led you to consider EMDR therapy or counselling, and for us to connect and explore whether working together feels like the right fit.

You don’t need to have everything figured out – we can begin from where you are.

Fees

The weekly session fee is £85 per 50 minute session. To confirm and secure your first appointment, payment is required at the time of booking.

Learn More About EMDR

EMDR is a NICE, ISTSS, and WHO-approved trauma treatment with a strong evidence base for PTSD and complex trauma. If you’d like to learn more about how EMDR works, these resources are a good starting point:

Location

My practice offers online therapy sessions nationally and internationally, as well as in-person and blended sessions across Chichester, Bognor Regis, and the Portsmouth area. Locations are conveniently situated near public transport links.

Contact

Please get in touch on 07802 513 143

If I’m unable to answer your call please leave a message, including your name and number and I will get back to you as soon as possible. I aim to contact you within one working day.

Email: rachelbarlow-counselling@outlook.com

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